How to Communicate With a Girl Properly: Tips For Guys

background graphic redBy George Wolfson

September 23rd, 2020

BURLINGTON, ON

 

There are very few men who know the elocution. And those who have mastered it perfectly are even fewer.

One thing pleases — you can master this tricky science quickly, and most importantly, you need to do this! It is enough not to delay the transition from theory to practice.

What Are You Doing Wrong?
The overwhelming majority of guys fail at the very first stage of communication with Ukrainian women. And for a long time they are lost in conjectures — why so, and not otherwise. In fact, there are a huge number of reasons.

By the way, finding out which ones can significantly improve the situation. Let’s consider the most common ones:

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The overwhelming majority of guys fail at the very first stage of communication

● Complete lack of experience. Of course, guys who rarely date and communicate with the opposite sex have a much harder time;
● Low self-esteem. Insecure guys are a thousand times more difficult to start a conversation with a strange girl. Doubts and fears overcome them and eventually win;
● Experience of past failures. Young people who have previously experienced problems communicating with the opposite sex are finding it harder and harder to cross this barrier. With each subsequent attempt, they program themselves to fail.

The tips below in the article will help you to improve the situation and learn how to communicate with a girl correctly.

1. First impressions count
If to talk about real communication, then your appearance is the first thing to worry about. Words, gestures, facial expressions and voice timbre — all this will be later, when the girl, after evaluating your appearance, decides to start a dialogue with you. Therefore, this point shouldn’t be ignored in any case.

You should pay attention to:

● presentable appearance;
● clean shoes;
● no bruises or abrasions on the face;
● friendly smile.

2. Topic for conversation
The main secret is to keep the topic of conversation at the same time casual and unhackneyed. Start with what is close to you, because the girl’s tastes and hobbies aren’t yet known to you. Further in the process, you will already be guided by her answers and build a dialogue so that it is as comfortable as possible for the girl. Neutral topics that are best suited for starting a conversation include the following:

● plans for the next weekend;
● pets;
● scope of activity;
● favourite hobby;
● the last book read;
● culinary tastes.

Important: avoid such questions that the girl can answer “Yes” or “No”. Reveal her in the process of conversation!

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You will already be guided by her answers and build a dialogue so that it is as comfortable as possible for the girl.

3. Taboo on monologue

Dialogue should prevail in your communication. If only you speak, your interlocutor will get bored or, even worse, consider you a narcissistic arrogant who isn’t interested in anything other than his own interests. If the monologue comes only from her, she will regard you as an inerudite interlocutor, unable to keep a conversation and a person who simply has nothing to answer.

4. End the conversation on the most interesting point
You shouldn’t wait until all interesting topics are revealed, and in your conversation, a lively dialogue will suddenly be replaced by meaningful awkward pauses. Having finished the conversation without waiting for this terrible moment, you will be able to intrigue your interlocutor and make her look forward to a new meeting.

 

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1 comment to How to Communicate With a Girl Properly: Tips For Guys

  • Alide Camilleri

    The author of this article has himself failed to properly communicating with the female of the spices by referring to females as “girls”. That is about the worst thing a guy can do. Grow up and learn that women are not girls for their entire lives. They are girls only until age 17 or 18, after that they are women in the fullest sense.

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